First Of all, let me begin with “I’m sO sorry” because this is nOt my intentiOn tO be smarter than Others but the main purpOse is that, tO vOice Out my OpiniOn abOut sOmething that can be cOnsidered really impOrtant fOr peOple tO knOw and bare in mind especially the yOungsters, teenagers, yOuth and all Muslimah fOr sure. (Firstly, let me remind yOu. Please and dO nOt invOlve in adultery.)
As we knOw very well, adultery is sO prOhibited by any religiOn especially Islam. In fact, due tO a lOt Of sOcial prOblem nOwadays such as free sex, illegal pregnant, baby dumping etc, we need tO dO sOmething in Order tO prevent and at least reduce these seriOus Of negative nOrms in Our Islamic sOciety.
Maybe there are a lOt Of peOple Out there dOesn’t knOw what is adultery (zina)?
Adultery is the extramarital sex that willfully and maliciOusly interferes with marriage relatiOns.
Or it can be defined as a despicable act of intercOurse between men and wOmen whO are nOt bOund by rOpes Of marriage and adultery certainly belOngs tO the grOup Of majOr sins.
Or in Malay, it called as Zina and zina adalah perbuatan bersenggama yang keji antara lelaki dan perempuan yang tidak terikat dengan tali pernikahan dan sesungguhnya zina tergOlOng dalam kelOmpOk dOsa besar”.
(For the secOnd reminder, I repeat, please and dO nOt invOlve in adultery.)
Back tO the basic, “Why Adultery is Sinful??”
1. Human heart is hurt
Adultery divided by twO which are:
* DOne by thOse whO are married.
Obviously, this will hurt the partner in the marriage itself. It can be dOne by either the trOubled husband, Or the trOubled wife, Or it can be bOth Of them.
* Done by those who are not married.
(As the riwayah from Rasulullah, PrOphet Muhammad p.b.u.h) Why shOuld we hurt the human’s heart? Because tO the man committing adultery with a wOman, the wOman’s status is:
* A daughter frOm a cOuple (husband and wife which mean her parents), aren’t we will hurt the parent Of the girl? (SURE!!) DO yOu want Our daughter tO be treated fOr adultery by Others? (ABSOLUTELY NO!!)
* Future wife, isn’t she will get married and Own a husband? (YES!!) DO yOu want yOur wife tO be treated fOr adultery by Others? (OF COURSE NO!!)
* Future mOther, isn’t she will have her Own family and kids and being a mOther. (DEFINITELY!!) DO yOu want Our mOther be treated fOr adultery? (HELL NO!!)
(Please and dO nOt invOlve in adultery.*I repeat this again and again as we knOw hOw impOrtance this reminder tO us*)
Maybe sOme Of yOu might think that hOw if yOu dO the adultery with the future wife, and she finally really be yOur wife later? If this questiOn appears, what is the meaning Of the marriage? It is MEANINGLESS!!Or is it just fOr the declaratiOn and cOnfirmatiOn? Getting the certificate and dOne? Well, it is just like the fasting wOrship. The grace Of it is when we break the fast after implement the wOrship very well. The mOst preciOus moment is when it being held fOr the first time. If we use tO be in that rOutine, the first night is nOt as preciOus as it suppOses tO be. SO, think abOut it.
2. See the surrOundings.
Have yOu thOught that, when yOu dO adultery, there are thOusand or even milliOn peOple are suffering frOm hunger, suffering frOm disease, jihad fisabilillah, injured, facing disaster such as war, natural disaster etc are praying fOr the best fOr their life? It might nOt even been thinking in mind because in hOtel rOom, behind the bushes, in yOur transpOrt, there are nO people like I mentiOn abOve in frOnt Of yOu. But, if we being tOgether with these grOup, we will knOw hOw tO appreciate the life which given by Allah and use it wisely.
Just imagine when yOu dO the despicable act, gOt a peOple at the same time whO are:
• Hungry and just want a bite of fOod
• The sick persOn lying and just want a healthy life return
• Those whO dO nOt have legs, paralysis, and just want tO walk
• PeOple whO are blind, just want tO see
• PeOple are grieving and busy due tO natural disasters
• PeOple whO are fighting fOr hard wOrk, learning, etc.
• PeOple whO are preOccupied tO pray, bOw tO the Allah
• The leader, a warriOr willing tO sacrifice fOr the yOung generatiOn
But you who have the good and healthy body, nOrmal, just knOw hOw tO make fun in bed with someOne whO is nOt yOur right, is that Allah will be prOud Of yOu Or angry and thrOw yOu tO the hell?
Lastly, dear my friends, let us be a gOod Muslim. Not just hOld the identity card which displays the religiOn Of Islam On it but nOt implement what is Islam is all abOut. Be a Muslim believer, nOt just a fOllower and avOid yourself frOm all kind of sOcial prOblem including adultery because it sO dirty, sO despicable, sO humiliate and alsO nOt civilized.Besides, Once yOu get invOlved in it, yOu have bOoked the disaster in your life nO matter in present, but alsO in the future life..Nauzubillah.. DO remember, preventing is much much better that cure..Insya-Allah, if yOu think wisely, yOu’ll find the happiness and paradise is waiting fOr yOu..biiznillah..
That’s all, ilalliqa’ wa ma’assalamah..
Assalamualaikum
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